Heyy people!!! I’m writing after a very long time. Lately, I haven’t really been feeling like myself… not feeling good enough. So today, I just thought — let me write it all down. Not for sympathy, not for attention, but maybe just to let it out, for me.
It’s okay to be the worst in someone’s story, even when all you did was try your best the whole time. You never did anything wrong — you were just misunderstood again and again. You did what they liked, you prioritized their happiness, their comfort, their opinion. You kept thinking, “Will this hurt them? What will they think?”.You made sacrifices, gave up friendships, stayed quiet,and after all that, you still ended up hearing things like “I’ll cut off every relation with you” or “ You are Dead to them.”
Boom!! thats where you lose…
You break inside a little every time, but somehow keep showing up — hoping one day they’ll see the real you.
What hurts even more is you can never truly be yourself around them. Always editing your words, hiding your truth, shaping yourself into someone they might accept — and still, it’s never enough. And sometimes, a complete stranger makes you feel safer than the people who claim they’re here to protect you. Let’s accept it – sometimes the people closest to you judge you the most. And then you are being reminded again and again that you have to live on their terms, the way they want it because they are “paying” for you. It makes you question your own worth, makes you feel like you owe your life.
So the conclusion becomes very clear: all you need is money. Because the moment you have that, you don’t owe anyone anything. This whole concept of love, care, and family — sometimes it really feels like it’s all just words. Because no one actually shows it.
Hope you all are safe and doing good. Its good that the pandemic is decreasing day by day but do take precautions as its not over completely.
Well, Lately I have received some mails from our juniors who were being struggling from some basic problems which we all have/will been/go through. “”Choosing career“”
Everytime the mistake is not ❌of a child, at some point I think that parents are the one who couldn’t understand their child. Parents should leave the topic of career ON 🔛 their children. They shouldn’t leave them with certain options. Children👧👦 should be free to think and choose any career.
Let me tell you one thing, IF there is a conflict between a teen and parents on a career option. I am damn sure 👍💯 that the parents might have reached to the saturation point because somewhere down the line the child thinks💭 to talk to parents and feels that parents will understand😉 him/her BUT the biggest mistake parents make here is that they start shouting on them and they demotivates them by saying🗣🗣 “”YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING”” .The biggest arrow➡ which damage a child is this. This four word sentence looks very small but the destruction made by it is tooo big. From that very moment this sentence roams in a student mind due to which they are distracted from studies. They only think 💭that “Are we really capable of doing anything”.
From childhood we are taught that parents are the wonderful creation of The Almighty. They are the only one ☝who always thinks good about their children, and they do so, no doubt. But 📖📖
Parents should not ❌🚫always talk about marks and studies. They should develop a normal conversation with their children too. Believe me if they are always talking🗣 about studies and nothing else the child will feel isolated in his/her own house🏠. If they are only giving preference to marks than they are themselves sending their child far from them. Whenever a child comes to talk or to share anything about their day like what happened in their school, coaching or with friends. I know parents will get bored but parents should patiently listen to➡it because sometimes having talks with your child will make them feel happy and please it’s a huge request to you dear parents don’t go on 🔛to tell about yourchild’s talk to your relatives and friends cause their is a value of everyone’s talks, and please don’t ask them to study on their birthdays🎂at least.
If a child talks to their friends more than parents then they have gone far from them because they believe that mom and dad just need marks they don’t love me, they love marks and nothing else whereas their friends👭👬👫 love them more than studies.
See marks are not ❌ the only thing in this world 🌏. I know they are important but just once 🔂put yourself in their place than you will understand What ❓harm have you done to your child and see which place you have taken in their hearts❤, a bad one or a good one☝. Hope that they have taken a good one.
Parents should not❌🚫 always ask them about studies. They shouldn’t forget that their is a world outside those books 📚📕. The world🌏full of difficulties, problems. Let them find happiness in such an exhausting life. Let them apply those Maths theorems and Physics applications in their normal day to day life.
Parents should encourage them for new things because there are other professions than Engineering, Medical, Chartered Accountant. There is another world of ARTS 🎨✍🎭💕, beyond SCIENCE and COMMERCE
If sometimes a child cracks some joke or perform some stand up comedy then parents should never say that ” What will you do if you went on🔛 with such nonsense things??? ” And many such sentences like these, cause it might be possible that one☝ day they become a comedian like Romano ,Dave Chappelle or might they start a series like One mic stand of their own. Or might be possible that they even become an musician or a photographer( It is quite a good profession these days) Let them have their own choice as there is no surety inany of the streams, it is better to let them run behind their passion or atleast don’t pressurise them with the dreadful word marks.
And I would also like to say to the students that your parents are also correct in their place, its just they want you to have a stable future (Its not like their is no stability in other fields except study) but in those fields you have to learn all the new ways and you have to be updated with new forms of it, its good if you can manage both passion and studies(which is quite difficult I know but if you really want to make your future in it than you can as nothing is “IMPOSSIBLE”)
Hopefully, you all are keeping safe and doing well.
Today’s post is just a random thought I had 🤷♀️( You know what overthinking does to people😃…)
“Always love things not the peoples cause they wont hurt you or leave you”
Priyanshi Agarwal
I was just pondering that been a teen is not easy.
There comes a time when you start hating people around you. At this stage you meet a lot of temporary people in your life. You loved someone so much but they never valued it and took it for granted. You were never returned the same. That thing changes you the most and you start gaining affection for things and objects not the living organisms. Even if those people scold you for your good you generate hatred for them.
This time when you don’t found any one to talk to. Even thought of suicide comes to your mind. You feel you are worse butremember you are the best you tried to be the best version of yourself just because the people were busy to judge the worse of yours it doesn’t lower your value. Nobody is perfect and if you are worse for someone than let it be. No one is good in everyone’s storysome have to take the evil roles. Remember you are a gem whom they are losing and once the gem will be gone they will understand its worth.
People will stop you from doing everything this will make you feel that you don’t know anything or whatever you do will be wrong. This will lower down your confidence. Always remember you are the only one who supports yourself, you are the only one who had been fighting for yourself ,you are the only one who was standing for yourself and you are the only one who will support yourself forever. Find someone among the people who love you, like you understand you[Most importantly] and value your thoughts find someone who knows your worth they will show you too. Always Remember there are many who just want to be like you. These people will tell you how amazing you are and that’s when you start loving yourself once again.
It’s true that you yourself have to make way through hard times. But, a little aid is always advisable. Plus, it’s always good to share the burden on your heart with others- Parents /Teachers/ Siblings/ Friends/Fellow Bloggers, who can just lend you an ear and comfort you🤗you can read out my previous blog that can help you to some extent🙃
Once there were two friends named Stefan and Klaus. They went to same school and use to spend most of the time together. They slowly became close friends and most of the other students were jealous of their friendship as there was nobody in the whole school campus who can detach them from each other. They use to eat together, play together ,study together and even went to the same college. Time flews very fast and so it happened here too they got graduated and got jobs in different cities . On their last day of college they promised to be in contact with each other and will keep meeting in every month or two. Both of them were unhappy to leave each other. They went out to live their lives and the promise was been kept for a year but then both got busy with their lives and none had time to even bother for other one.
Time passes with a swiss. Both of them were earning well and enjoying their life. Once they got a letter from one of their old friends who had organized a reunion party. They all had gathered at their friends house in Mystic Falls (their hometown). Everyone was too excited to meet the old crowd. The happiness on Stefan and Klaus’s face on seeing each other was beyond measures. They hugged each other. All of the friends enjoyed and danced and had merry time together. Stefan asked Klaus if he would like to stay with him at Stefan’s house as it was too late for him to travel to Atlanta and it was a long time after which the two friends met. Klaus was also eager to spend some time with his childhood best friend and he agreed. Both of the them were on the way to Stefan’s house and were talking to each other. Suddenly Stefan’s mind was diverged and the car got out of his control and it got smashed into a wall.
Stefan opened his eyes and he was lying in a white room with a lot of equipments and machines near him and a doctor was standing there too. He was then told that he is in the city hospital and when they met with the accident he was unconscious and people living their called for the ambulance and he is in the hospital since one and a half day. He then asked about Klaus but doctor told him that Klaus is still Unconscious and he also asked Stefan what relation he has with Klaus. Stefan told him that Klaus is his friend and he then learns an unfortunate truth. Doctor had found that Klaus was suffering from blood cancer and he has a very little time left as he had reached the 3rd stage. This was very shocking for Stefan. He went in Klaus room and hold his hand and tears were flowing down from his eyes and he softly spoke something and started going out of the room. His presence recovered Klaus and he opened his eyes and saw Stefan walking out but he was unable to say anything.
Time passed out once again everything become same as it was before. No contact between old friends. Stefan haven’t met Klaus after that last meeting in the hospital. Everyone got indulged in their work. Klaus got a transfer to Mystic Falls. He tried to call Stefan but Stefan never picked his call and he also didn’t read his messages. Stefan thought that might Klaus will be needed with money for his treatment but Stefan was not in a stable condition to supply him with money and it will be too disappointing for Klaus to listen no from his dearest friend.
One day Stefan was reading the newspaper as usual but today it was a different vision. He was unable to read from a normal distance and the words appear to be blur. He immediately fixed a meeting with the opthalmologist. After examing Stefan doctor told him that his optic nerve is getting weaker day by day and within a month he will totally lost his vison. Stefan had nowhere to go and he considered it as his fate. Klaus saw him coming out of the clinic and called him but since Stefan was in a shock he never heard him. Klaus went inside the clinic and learned about Stefan’s problem.
After a week Stefan got a call from the eye center and doctor told him that there is a person who donated his eyes and Stefan can go under surgery. Stefan was happy on knowing this and soon went for the surgery. After surgery Stefan asked the Doctor that who had donated his eyes for him.Doctor gave him a letter and said ” It will be better if you yourself find out the person”.
Stefan read
” Hello my friend. If you are reading this letter that means everything went alright. When you will get this letter I won’t be there to enjoy with you on your precious day. I was always your best friend and will continue to be so. Please do not cry after knowing the truth cause I won’t be there to hold you. You remember how we use to play together and everyone in the school and college was jealous of our friendship but time has wings and it flewed so fast that our fate was ending up in this manner but I had a chance to save you and so I did. Now after death I will see the world through you. Do not forget to visit all of my favourite places which I always want to. I was indebt to your friendship for me but now my all the debts are cleared. I am dead but not our friendship cause I am goona haunting you in the form of Spirits….
Have a happy life ahead
Your loving Friend
Klaus
Reading this Stefan was in tears and had no word for Klaus sacrifice for him……
Hope that you are safe and doing well during this pandemic.
So how are you all. I know all of us had made plans for this year but all are been squashed now. This pandemic has turned the world upside down.
It’s like the dreams of the students came true No schools,But the council is also not less they also started online classes.So now our daily routine is waking up early and signing into our zoom account. Watching the lecture in our sleepy eyes and Accidently falling asleep while listening. No one is in school dress. Some are lounging at the sofas ,some are having breakfast during classes , someone’s mother is shouting in background,”Go and take a bath otherwise…. “. So student life is all going well.
Well this post was on a demand by one of our friends. Obviously she is a teen. And I think you all would have got the idea that what the post was about.
Every person has experienced that at some point of life we all think that its going well and everything is fine. Life seems to be moving smoothly. And then there are the days mired in confusion, when nothing makes sense, when your wonderful new idea seems unattainable, your dreams seem distant and you can’t seem to get anything right.At some point or the other we all have experienced it. Might be in choosing jobs, career options. I think confusion has become a part of our life. Without this nothing is started. We can even say that it’s human tendency to think about a thing with much efforts and then usually end up with a lot of views and thoughts running up in mind.
“Nobody can give you a wiser advice than yourself ”
Coming up to our teen category. I think they have to face a lot more decisions and choices. More choices may sounds like a good thing but the number of decisions they have to deal daily can overwhelm their teen brain at its current stage of development.
Teenage is the best time of one’s life because during this time each one get to know about themselves. This time is the most difficult for one. There are physical changes and the mind of one is also under construction. Teenagers are always said to be the wildest, disobedience and full of rage.But it’s not so. The thing is they have a lot of new thoughts,dreams and mysterious things moving in their minds. This is the time when they think about their future and a lot of questions starts coming up in their mind.
CAUSE OF THIS CONFUSION
Worry: Teens worry a lot about what others think about them. Well those are humans right and they have brain so let them think☺
Society : It’s time when one has to think about the career. Suddenly people around them began to expect them to do good in everything and if they fail to do so the society is gonna treat them as loser and they feel like being separated out from the winners. It will be filled in their mind that they are just failures and for the rest of their lives they will think they are nothing more than a failure. The biggest enemy in a teens life is this so called society. Who is this society which is going to decide their future??Who are they who are going to decide that whether they are failures or winners??? Isn’t it funny that how people keep taunting by saying that” this generation is blah blah blah blah…”but they forget that who has raised this generation. SO IT’S BETTER TO NOT TO THINK ABOUT THIS SOCIETY.
WAYS TO OVERCOME THIS CONFUSION (TO SOME EXTENT)
Developing skills: You can learn new skills. This will help you to invest your time wisely. You can learn some sport or an instrument. Believe me when you play a tone its the pleasurable moment cause in order to play that tone yourself you have done a lot of hard work. If you did well in it you can also make a career out of it. So it not only increases your skill but also adds one more option to choose in your life.
Travelling: It’s the best time when one can interact with nature. Nature has a power to make us come out of melancholic mood. It has the power to solace us. The beauty of nature cannot be compared with anything. Travelling to hill station in a chilling ❄ weather is always best. The scenic beauty of mountains ( and yah don’t forget to remember our only childhood landscape with a sun peeping from behind the mountains with a river flowing between😁😁)
Physical exercise : I know most of the teens don’t like doing exercise at all,but it will help you to be fit and not fat😀😀 You can just go for a walk in the park or even on the terrace.
Reading: You should start reading some books apart from your course books. Books create a new world for you. This not only increases your knowledge but also vocabulary. Make them your best friends.
Interaction: Talk to someone who can easily understand you. Share your problems with them. You may get some better suggestions from them. You should always have a philosophical mind around you whom you can believe and share your problem with.Believe me when you do so your thought processing takes a different way.
You can always share your problems with me also.
Allow the moments of confusion. You have to accept your situation and learn to live happily. There will be moments of real clarity and just when you think you’ve got it figured out, confusion may set in. Everything will happen good. It’s just you only who has to get it out of it cause nobody else is gonna do it for you.
Hope this pandemic will end soon 😇😇 as the Almighty is with all of us. Till then stay happy and cheerful.
An 18 year old girl from Morena district of Madhya Pradesh has been raped by her father twice during this lock down..
Source from Mirrornownews. Com
Yes it is true that a daughter is been raped by her own father and the worst part of it is that her mother has also helped his father in doing so. Doesn’t it look a bit wierd???
A father is said to be the super hero of every daughter. What a great work a super hero has done …. Let’s gave a loud applause👏👏👏 to him…
The girl told that she was working quietly at around 2 at night in the kitchen and her father came and grabbed her and took her to a room where she was been tied to the bed and her mother put cloth in her mouth….. Yahh litterly her mother helped in doing so. How can a woman be involved with the rapist. And the girl was raped allegedly. And was been locked in the room so that she cannot run away.
The girls father gave a opinion that ” I am just making things easier for you after marriage .” And not only once but the girl was raped twice during 16 days lockdown. However once she managed to run out and reached to her aunt’s house and told her everything but who was going to help her. Noonnneeee. And made things even difficult for her by calling her father and told him to take her away from here.
The father again raped her. But this time a little humanity was left and her elder sister helped her by calling at 1098. And the reason given by her father behind the rape to the police was that the girl was been punished because she was in love with a guy.
Yah that’s the truth. On investigation it was found that the girl was been molested since high school
How can any parent do such a thing with their own daughter. Due to these kind of people the outsiders are given full freedom to do anything with any girl. Now a girl is not even save in her own house. A girl cannot believe her own parents then how can she believe the outsider. What ever we can do for the women power but these all things are not going to be stopped
Today also when a girl is born a thought comes in many peoples mind that she should be dead. Why doesn’t she have a right to live. But yah even she is alive these monsters in this world will not let her live. I know all are not rapist but because of some heroes like these a girl cannot trust her parents even her brother. She will not feel save anywhere now.
Let us take an oath of making this world a better place to live in especially for the girls. Let not the girls be treated like this. Let them open their wings and let them fly as the sky is big enough to accomodate each one of us.
All of us are aware about the bois locker room case I hv something to say on it.
The snapchat conversation which went on viral on social media was between a girl and a guy and the girl did this by creating a fake account with the fictional name “Siddhart” With the intention to see the reaction of the guy and strength of his character.
The girl didn’t posted it or leaked it somewhere to abuse male gender, to do fake allegations, another person leaked that screenshot and it got included in this bois locker room case.
Creating a fake id was wrong but her intentions were not wrong so no complaints were filed against her. The boys of the group have been arrested for sharing nude pictures of the woman, their phones are seized.
Now you tell me? Sharing the private pictures of the women in a public group, how does it prove to be right? I am neither against men nor women.
If a woman is intentionally doing something for fame or defame of a man, strict laws should be made against such woman so that they can get punished. Same goes to men.
What is Feminism according to you? According to me it is defined as below…
Feminism is equal opportunities for both men and women. It doesn’t mean proving one superior and the other inferior. Not even disrespecting anyone.
If a woman or a man is doing something wrong or something which is against humanity, they deserve to be punished. Strict laws should be made against such people’s
Talking about men, in the world full of rapists don’t even try to go closer to the Rapist category. This is the reason why women have to raise their voice against such men.
Both the genders should be respected equally. Female should not assume that every guy is a Rapist or had a bad intentions towards you. But In today’s world everyone should be alert as their protection is in their own hands. The court and the laws can only make a person feel embarrassed and can give them punishment but they can’t protect you from bad people.
Both gender should start respecting each other for a better tomorrow. In fact every person should respect the other. It will be even better if we start judging people on the basis of their capabilities not on the basis of gender
Still, if I heart you, I apologize for that. I don’t mean to heart you intentionally since all have different point of views. It’s what I felt about it.
Do let me know what you think about it down in the comments.
It was around 11:50 at night and Liliana was on the way back to home. Being intoxicated and weary after attending the bachelor’s party at office. She was a journalist in The Rodent’s Gazette. She was unable to walk properly and there were no taxies for her help since it was too late. However she managed to reach the Olivander’s Road which was at a distance of about 500m from her house. These late night parties were common for her. But tonight, it was different. There was no moon and not even a single star was shinning. The road was looking scary. It was an uncanny environment as the lights of the lamp posts were flickering. She took out her phone from her purse whose battery were running down. She turned on the torch of the phone.
Heavy winds were blowing. It was a chilling atmosphere. The sky was full of dark clouds. It seemed like it will rain heavily soon. And Liliana continued to moved towards her house. As she moved ahead, she saw someone sitting on the track. It was an unclear sight. However Liliana managed to see. It was a lady wearing traditional clothes. She went nearer to the lady and suddenly the flickering lights of the lamp post went off. Being a courageous woman she moved a little closer to the lady. The lady appeared to be crying. Her head hung down, she held her face in her hands and was weeping peculiarly. It was a soundless weeping and Liliana felt distinctly awkward.
Liliana asked her “What happened Miss why are you crying? “ The lady didn’t replied and she continued her soundless weeping. Liliana asked the same question twice, thrice but the lady didn’t answered. Liliana said ” Howcan I help you? , please stop crying and look up!!”. The lady removed her hand from her face and slightly looked at Liliana who was checking her phone. Light of the torch from Liliana’s phone fall on the lady’s face. She was smiling and it was a horrific smile. Liliana screamed loudly and started running towards her house. Suddenly some eerie sounds started penetrating in her ears. She was very afraid. It was a wierd smile.
She reached home around 12:15 and started searching for keys in her bags. Her hands were shivering. She found the keys and hurriedly opened the door and went in. She kept her bag down on the table and went to the kitchen to have some water. She opened the refrigerator and checked for the bottle of water but there was none. She sat on the chair which was kept in the kitchen and started pondering to what she saw today. Suddenly there was crackling sound which made Liliana frighten. She stood up and slowly walked to the hall from where the sound came and got to know that it was the sound of the flower vase which fell down due to the strong winds coming from the window. She got relieved and went to close the window and suddenly the lights went off. She moved to the store room and brought a torch.
She thought to go to the backyard to check the electricity problem. She opened the backyard door, strong winds started opposing her movement. However she managed to reach to the main connection. She switched the buttons on and off twice and thrice but it seems like there was some problem from the torrent. Suddenly something fall on her hand and she screamed, it was a black spider. She got relieved and removed it from her hand. Moving back to the backyard door, she fall down as if someone had pushed her. The torch from her hand slipped out and broken down. Thinking that some stone might have came in the path due to which she stumbled. She got injured. Her leg started paining. But she stood up and started dusting ber clothes. Then she saw a lady in the black traditional clothes standing near the boundary whom she met on the way. She called out“Who’s there? “. The lady didn’t replied and turned towards Liliana and the girl was shocked to see her face, it was……
Ever since nobody came in contact with her cause she was nowhere to be found….
A long time ago, there was a girl named Emma. She was a seven year old beautiful girl. Her clear skin and her golden flicks decorated her forehead and made her look more admirable. Being a single child, she was the heart of every family member. But she had a deep affection with her father. They both use to spend much time together. The father always gave what his daughter wants and had made her a spoiled brat.
Year passed and the little girl grew up. A few days before Emma’s 12th Birthday. The little girl and her father were sitting near a window sill and it was raining heavily outside. Both of them were enjoying the lovely weather. Emma so curiously asked her father ” Dadda,what are you gonna give me on my 12th Birthday?? ” Her father thought for a while and them replied ” What you want dear? ” The little girl said ” I want something precious and big enough which none of my friends have ever received”. Father happily said ” There is much time so wait till your Birthday. “
It was a Sunday evening and the climate was clear. Whole family was enjoying in the garden and were discussing about Emma’s Birthday party. The little girl was playing with her toys nearby. And all of a sudden she fainted. Whole family rushed to the hospital taking Emma. Everyone was worried. They were scared for her health. After examining her, the doctor informed that there is a hole in her heart and if it will not be transplant urgently, we can even lost her.
On hearing this news, everyone got upset. There life was changed abruptly from a cheerful environment to a depressed mood. It looked like there is only darkness in their life now. While Emma lying in the hospital said to her father ” Dad I know that I will live no longer now. ” This brought tears to her eye’s. But father replied “No my dear. You will live Don’t even think this sinful thought. ” He warmly hugged her and kissed her on forehead and left her weeping.
Days passed and Emma got treated. It was on her 12th Birthday, when she return home. She hurriedly went into her room to see her Birthday present. On entering her room, he found a letter on her bed. It says
“My darling, If you are reading this, it means everything went well as I told you. You remember?? Once you asked me what am I gonna gift you for your Birthday. Well at that time I didn’t knew what I am gonna give you. Now my present to you is my heart…. Your loving father. “
All matters here 