Heyy people!!! I’m writing after a very long time. Lately, I haven’t really been feeling like myself… not feeling good enough. So today, I just thought — let me write it all down. Not for sympathy, not for attention, but maybe just to let it out, for me.
It’s okay to be the worst in someone’s story, even when all you did was try your best the whole time. You never did anything wrong — you were just misunderstood again and again. You did what they liked, you prioritized their happiness, their comfort, their opinion. You kept thinking, “Will this hurt them? What will they think?”.You made sacrifices, gave up friendships, stayed quiet,and after all that, you still ended up hearing things like “I’ll cut off every relation with you” or “ You are Dead to them.”
Boom!! thats where you lose…
You break inside a little every time, but somehow keep showing up — hoping one day they’ll see the real you.
What hurts even more is you can never truly be yourself around them. Always editing your words, hiding your truth, shaping yourself into someone they might accept — and still, it’s never enough. And sometimes, a complete stranger makes you feel safer than the people who claim they’re here to protect you. Let’s accept it – sometimes the people closest to you judge you the most. And then you are being reminded again and again that you have to live on their terms, the way they want it because they are “paying” for you. It makes you question your own worth, makes you feel like you owe your life.
So the conclusion becomes very clear: all you need is money. Because the moment you have that, you don’t owe anyone anything. This whole concept of love, care, and family — sometimes it really feels like it’s all just words. Because no one actually shows it.
Hope that you are safe and doing well during this pandemic.
So how are you all. I know all of us had made plans for this year but all are been squashed now. This pandemic has turned the world upside down.
It’s like the dreams of the students came true No schools,But the council is also not less they also started online classes.So now our daily routine is waking up early and signing into our zoom account. Watching the lecture in our sleepy eyes and Accidently falling asleep while listening. No one is in school dress. Some are lounging at the sofas ,some are having breakfast during classes , someone’s mother is shouting in background,”Go and take a bath otherwise…. “. So student life is all going well.
Well this post was on a demand by one of our friends. Obviously she is a teen. And I think you all would have got the idea that what the post was about.
Every person has experienced that at some point of life we all think that its going well and everything is fine. Life seems to be moving smoothly. And then there are the days mired in confusion, when nothing makes sense, when your wonderful new idea seems unattainable, your dreams seem distant and you can’t seem to get anything right.At some point or the other we all have experienced it. Might be in choosing jobs, career options. I think confusion has become a part of our life. Without this nothing is started. We can even say that it’s human tendency to think about a thing with much efforts and then usually end up with a lot of views and thoughts running up in mind.
“Nobody can give you a wiser advice than yourself ”
Coming up to our teen category. I think they have to face a lot more decisions and choices. More choices may sounds like a good thing but the number of decisions they have to deal daily can overwhelm their teen brain at its current stage of development.
Teenage is the best time of one’s life because during this time each one get to know about themselves. This time is the most difficult for one. There are physical changes and the mind of one is also under construction. Teenagers are always said to be the wildest, disobedience and full of rage.But it’s not so. The thing is they have a lot of new thoughts,dreams and mysterious things moving in their minds. This is the time when they think about their future and a lot of questions starts coming up in their mind.
CAUSE OF THIS CONFUSION
Worry: Teens worry a lot about what others think about them. Well those are humans right and they have brain so let them think☺
Society : It’s time when one has to think about the career. Suddenly people around them began to expect them to do good in everything and if they fail to do so the society is gonna treat them as loser and they feel like being separated out from the winners. It will be filled in their mind that they are just failures and for the rest of their lives they will think they are nothing more than a failure. The biggest enemy in a teens life is this so called society. Who is this society which is going to decide their future??Who are they who are going to decide that whether they are failures or winners??? Isn’t it funny that how people keep taunting by saying that” this generation is blah blah blah blah…”but they forget that who has raised this generation. SO IT’S BETTER TO NOT TO THINK ABOUT THIS SOCIETY.
WAYS TO OVERCOME THIS CONFUSION (TO SOME EXTENT)
Developing skills: You can learn new skills. This will help you to invest your time wisely. You can learn some sport or an instrument. Believe me when you play a tone its the pleasurable moment cause in order to play that tone yourself you have done a lot of hard work. If you did well in it you can also make a career out of it. So it not only increases your skill but also adds one more option to choose in your life.
Travelling: It’s the best time when one can interact with nature. Nature has a power to make us come out of melancholic mood. It has the power to solace us. The beauty of nature cannot be compared with anything. Travelling to hill station in a chilling ❄ weather is always best. The scenic beauty of mountains ( and yah don’t forget to remember our only childhood landscape with a sun peeping from behind the mountains with a river flowing between😁😁)
Physical exercise : I know most of the teens don’t like doing exercise at all,but it will help you to be fit and not fat😀😀 You can just go for a walk in the park or even on the terrace.
Reading: You should start reading some books apart from your course books. Books create a new world for you. This not only increases your knowledge but also vocabulary. Make them your best friends.
Interaction: Talk to someone who can easily understand you. Share your problems with them. You may get some better suggestions from them. You should always have a philosophical mind around you whom you can believe and share your problem with.Believe me when you do so your thought processing takes a different way.
You can always share your problems with me also.
Allow the moments of confusion. You have to accept your situation and learn to live happily. There will be moments of real clarity and just when you think you’ve got it figured out, confusion may set in. Everything will happen good. It’s just you only who has to get it out of it cause nobody else is gonna do it for you.
Hope this pandemic will end soon 😇😇 as the Almighty is with all of us. Till then stay happy and cheerful.
An 18 year old girl from Morena district of Madhya Pradesh has been raped by her father twice during this lock down..
Source from Mirrornownews. Com
Yes it is true that a daughter is been raped by her own father and the worst part of it is that her mother has also helped his father in doing so. Doesn’t it look a bit wierd???
A father is said to be the super hero of every daughter. What a great work a super hero has done …. Let’s gave a loud applause👏👏👏 to him…
The girl told that she was working quietly at around 2 at night in the kitchen and her father came and grabbed her and took her to a room where she was been tied to the bed and her mother put cloth in her mouth….. Yahh litterly her mother helped in doing so. How can a woman be involved with the rapist. And the girl was raped allegedly. And was been locked in the room so that she cannot run away.
The girls father gave a opinion that ” I am just making things easier for you after marriage .” And not only once but the girl was raped twice during 16 days lockdown. However once she managed to run out and reached to her aunt’s house and told her everything but who was going to help her. Noonnneeee. And made things even difficult for her by calling her father and told him to take her away from here.
The father again raped her. But this time a little humanity was left and her elder sister helped her by calling at 1098. And the reason given by her father behind the rape to the police was that the girl was been punished because she was in love with a guy.
Yah that’s the truth. On investigation it was found that the girl was been molested since high school
How can any parent do such a thing with their own daughter. Due to these kind of people the outsiders are given full freedom to do anything with any girl. Now a girl is not even save in her own house. A girl cannot believe her own parents then how can she believe the outsider. What ever we can do for the women power but these all things are not going to be stopped
Today also when a girl is born a thought comes in many peoples mind that she should be dead. Why doesn’t she have a right to live. But yah even she is alive these monsters in this world will not let her live. I know all are not rapist but because of some heroes like these a girl cannot trust her parents even her brother. She will not feel save anywhere now.
Let us take an oath of making this world a better place to live in especially for the girls. Let not the girls be treated like this. Let them open their wings and let them fly as the sky is big enough to accomodate each one of us.
A long time ago, there was a girl named Emma. She was a seven year old beautiful girl. Her clear skin and her golden flicks decorated her forehead and made her look more admirable. Being a single child, she was the heart of every family member. But she had a deep affection with her father. They both use to spend much time together. The father always gave what his daughter wants and had made her a spoiled brat.
Year passed and the little girl grew up. A few days before Emma’s 12th Birthday. The little girl and her father were sitting near a window sill and it was raining heavily outside. Both of them were enjoying the lovely weather. Emma so curiously asked her father ” Dadda,what are you gonna give me on my 12th Birthday?? ” Her father thought for a while and them replied ” What you want dear? ” The little girl said ” I want something precious and big enough which none of my friends have ever received”. Father happily said ” There is much time so wait till your Birthday. “
It was a Sunday evening and the climate was clear. Whole family was enjoying in the garden and were discussing about Emma’s Birthday party. The little girl was playing with her toys nearby. And all of a sudden she fainted. Whole family rushed to the hospital taking Emma. Everyone was worried. They were scared for her health. After examining her, the doctor informed that there is a hole in her heart and if it will not be transplant urgently, we can even lost her.
On hearing this news, everyone got upset. There life was changed abruptly from a cheerful environment to a depressed mood. It looked like there is only darkness in their life now. While Emma lying in the hospital said to her father ” Dad I know that I will live no longer now. ” This brought tears to her eye’s. But father replied “No my dear. You will live Don’t even think this sinful thought. ” He warmly hugged her and kissed her on forehead and left her weeping.
Days passed and Emma got treated. It was on her 12th Birthday, when she return home. She hurriedly went into her room to see her Birthday present. On entering her room, he found a letter on her bed. It says
“My darling, If you are reading this, it means everything went well as I told you. You remember?? Once you asked me what am I gonna gift you for your Birthday. Well at that time I didn’t knew what I am gonna give you. Now my present to you is my heart…. Your loving father. “
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