Confusion

Hola Readers!!

Hope that you are safe and doing well during this pandemic.

So how are you all. I know all of us had made plans for this year but all are been squashed now. This pandemic has turned the world upside down.

It’s like the dreams of the students came true No schools,But the council is also not less they also started online classes.So now our daily routine is waking up early and signing into our zoom account. Watching the lecture in our sleepy eyes and Accidently falling asleep while listening. No one is in school dress. Some are lounging at the sofas ,some are having breakfast during classes , someone’s mother is shouting in background,”Go and take a bath otherwise…. “. So student life is all going well.

Well this post was on a demand by one of our friends. Obviously she is a teen. And I think you all would have got the idea that what the post was about.

Every person has experienced that at some point of life we all think that its going well and everything is fine. Life seems to be moving smoothly. And then there are the days mired in confusion, when nothing makes sense, when your wonderful new idea seems unattainable, your dreams seem distant and you can’t seem to get anything right.At some point or the other we all have experienced it. Might be in choosing jobs, career options. I think confusion has become a part of our life. Without this nothing is started. We can even say that it’s human tendency to think about a thing with much efforts and then usually end up with a lot of views and thoughts running up in mind.

“Nobody can give you a wiser advice than yourself ”                       

Coming up to our teen category. I think they have to face a lot more decisions and choices. More choices may sounds like a good thing but the number of decisions they have to deal daily can overwhelm their teen brain at its current stage of development.

Teenage is the best time of one’s life because during this time each one get to know about themselves. This time is the most difficult for one. There are physical changes and the mind of one is also under construction. Teenagers are always said to be the wildest, disobedience and full of rage.But it’s not so. The thing is they have a lot of new thoughts,dreams and mysterious things moving in their minds. This is the time when they think about their future and a lot of questions starts coming up in their mind.

CAUSE OF THIS CONFUSION

• Worry:  Teens worry a lot about what others think about them. Well those are humans right and they have brain so let them think☺
• Society :  It’s time when one has to think about the career. Suddenly people around them began to expect them to do good in  everything and if they fail to do so the society is gonna treat them as loser and they feel like  being separated out from the winners. It will be filled in their mind that they are just failures and for the rest of their lives they will think they are nothing more than a failure. The biggest enemy in a teens life is this so called society. Who is this society which is going to decide their future??Who are they who are going to decide that whether they are failures or winners??? Isn’t it funny that how people keep taunting by saying that” this generation is blah blah blah blah…”but they forget that who has raised this generation.  SO IT’S BETTER TO NOT TO THINK ABOUT THIS SOCIETY.

WAYS TO OVERCOME THIS CONFUSION (TO SOME EXTENT)

• Developing skills: You can learn new skills. This will help you to invest your time wisely. You can learn some sport or an instrument. Believe me when you play a tone its the pleasurable moment cause in order to play that tone yourself you have done a lot of hard work. If you did well in it you can also make a career out of it. So it not only increases your skill but also adds one more option to choose in your life.

• Travelling: It’s the best time when one can interact with nature. Nature has a power to make us come out of melancholic mood. It has the power to solace us. The beauty of nature cannot be compared with anything. Travelling  to hill station in a chilling ❄ weather is always best. The scenic beauty of mountains ( and yah don’t forget to remember our only childhood landscape with a sun peeping from behind the mountains with a river flowing between😁😁)

• Physical exercise : I know most of the teens don’t like doing exercise at all,but it will help you to be fit and not fat😀😀 You can just go for a walk in the park or even on the terrace.

• Reading: You should start reading some books apart from your course books. Books create a new world for you. This not only increases your knowledge but also vocabulary. Make them your best friends.

• Interaction: Talk to someone who can easily understand you. Share your problems with them. You may get some better suggestions from them. You should always have a philosophical mind around you whom you can believe and share your problem with.Believe me when you do so your thought processing takes a different way.

You can always share your problems with me also.

Allow the moments of confusion. You have to accept your situation and learn to live happily. There will be moments of real clarity and just when you think you’ve got it figured out, confusion may set in. Everything will happen good. It’s just you only who has to get it out of it cause nobody else is gonna do it for you.

Hope this pandemic will end soon 😇😇 as the Almighty is with all of us. Till then stay happy and cheerful.

Yours Sincerely🤘🤘

Priyanshi Agarwal