To the One Who’s Tired of Trying

Heyy people!!!
I’m writing after a very long time.
Lately, I haven’t really been feeling like myself… not feeling good enough. So today, I just thought — let me write it all down. Not for sympathy, not for attention, but maybe just to let it out, for me.

It’s okay to be the worst in someone’s story, even when all you did was try your best the whole time. You never did anything wrong — you were just misunderstood again and again. You did what they liked, you prioritized their happiness, their comfort, their opinion. You kept thinking, “Will this hurt them? What will they think?”.You made sacrifices, gave up friendships, stayed quiet,and after all that, you still ended up hearing things like “I’ll cut off every relation with you” or “ You are Dead to them.”

Boom!! thats where you lose…

You break inside a little every time, but somehow keep showing up — hoping one day they’ll see the real you.

What hurts even more is you can never truly be yourself around them. Always editing your words, hiding your truth, shaping yourself into someone they might accept — and still, it’s never enough. And sometimes, a complete stranger makes you feel safer than the people who claim they’re here to protect you. Let’s accept it – sometimes the people closest to you judge you the most.
And then you are being reminded again and again that you have to live on their terms, the way they want it because they are “paying” for you. It makes you question your own worth, makes you feel like you owe your life.

So the conclusion becomes very clear: all you need is money.
Because the moment you have that, you don’t owe anyone anything.
This whole concept of love, care, and family — sometimes it really feels like it’s all just words. Because no one actually shows it.

With Love❤️ Priyanshi Agarwal

Confusion

Hola Readers!!

Hope that you are safe and doing well during this pandemic.

So how are you all. I know all of us had made plans for this year but all are been squashed now. This pandemic has turned the world upside down.

It’s like the dreams of the students came true No schools,But the council is also not less they also started online classes.So now our daily routine is waking up early and signing into our zoom account. Watching the lecture in our sleepy eyes and Accidently falling asleep while listening. No one is in school dress. Some are lounging at the sofas ,some are having breakfast during classes , someone’s mother is shouting in background,”Go and take a bath otherwise…. “. So student life is all going well.

Well this post was on a demand by one of our friends. Obviously she is a teen. And I think you all would have got the idea that what the post was about.

Every person has experienced that at some point of life we all think that its going well and everything is fine. Life seems to be moving smoothly. And then there are the days mired in confusion, when nothing makes sense, when your wonderful new idea seems unattainable, your dreams seem distant and you can’t seem to get anything right.At some point or the other we all have experienced it. Might be in choosing jobs, career options. I think confusion has become a part of our life. Without this nothing is started. We can even say that it’s human tendency to think about a thing with much efforts and then usually end up with a lot of views and thoughts running up in mind.

“Nobody can give you a wiser advice than yourself ”

Coming up to our teen category. I think they have to face a lot more decisions and choices. More choices may sounds like a good thing but the number of decisions they have to deal daily can overwhelm their teen brain at its current stage of development.

Teenage is the best time of one’s life because during this time each one get to know about themselves. This time is the most difficult for one. There are physical changes and the mind of one is also under construction. Teenagers are always said to be the wildest, disobedience and full of rage.But it’s not so. The thing is they have a lot of new thoughts,dreams and mysterious things moving in their minds. This is the time when they think about their future and a lot of questions starts coming up in their mind.

CAUSE OF THIS CONFUSION

Worry: Teens worry a lot about what others think about them. Well those are humans right and they have brain so let them think☺
Society : It’s time when one has to think about the career. Suddenly people around them began to expect them to do good in everything and if they fail to do so the society is gonna treat them as loser and they feel like being separated out from the winners. It will be filled in their mind that they are just failures and for the rest of their lives they will think they are nothing more than a failure. The biggest enemy in a teens life is this so called society. Who is this society which is going to decide their future??Who are they who are going to decide that whether they are failures or winners??? Isn’t it funny that how people keep taunting by saying that” this generation is blah blah blah blah…”but they forget that who has raised this generation. SO IT’S BETTER TO NOT TO THINK ABOUT THIS SOCIETY.

WAYS TO OVERCOME THIS CONFUSION (TO SOME EXTENT)

Developing skills: You can learn new skills. This will help you to invest your time wisely. You can learn some sport or an instrument. Believe me when you play a tone its the pleasurable moment cause in order to play that tone yourself you have done a lot of hard work. If you did well in it you can also make a career out of it. So it not only increases your skill but also adds one more option to choose in your life.

Travelling: It’s the best time when one can interact with nature. Nature has a power to make us come out of melancholic mood. It has the power to solace us. The beauty of nature cannot be compared with anything. Travelling to hill station in a chilling ❄ weather is always best. The scenic beauty of mountains ( and yah don’t forget to remember our only childhood landscape with a sun peeping from behind the mountains with a river flowing between😁😁)

Physical exercise : I know most of the teens don’t like doing exercise at all,but it will help you to be fit and not fat😀😀 You can just go for a walk in the park or even on the terrace.

Reading: You should start reading some books apart from your course books. Books create a new world for you. This not only increases your knowledge but also vocabulary. Make them your best friends.

Interaction: Talk to someone who can easily understand you. Share your problems with them. You may get some better suggestions from them. You should always have a philosophical mind around you whom you can believe and share your problem with.Believe me when you do so your thought processing takes a different way.

You can always share your problems with me also.

Allow the moments of confusion. You have to accept your situation and learn to live happily. There will be moments of real clarity and just when you think you’ve got it figured out, confusion may set in. Everything will happen good. It’s just you only who has to get it out of it cause nobody else is gonna do it for you.

Hope this pandemic will end soon 😇😇 as the Almighty is with all of us. Till then stay happy and cheerful.

Yours Sincerely🤘🤘

Priyanshi Agarwal

Satisfaction🙄🙄

In Today’s Modern Era or should I say In Today’s Competitive Era, where everyone is getting into a brawl of high nobility,reputation.
Where everyone wants some or the other thing in their life……
If lacking something which others have, then getting pester, demoralised,loosing faith .

Yes, people of Today’s world are Green with Envy,obstimate ,especially the youth..
They are not satisfied with what they have,they think others have more than them…. So they are incomplete….
Can anyone give me a reason why?
Why they feel it?? Let me tell you why they feel so...

They Compare themselves with others, they don’t want to focus on one thing in their life… But want to focus on what others have….
By this they only destroy their life… As they can’t focus on the thing which they are working upon…

People are not satisfied with the qualities they have…. According to them, their friends are more eligible to do something than they are..
But Is this true?
No, it’s not have you ever questioned yourself why you always consider them first and yourself always down… Think of it…
The answer is “You don’t want to be satisfied..“
You are hungry….you know hungry for what… For achieviments which others have made in their life….
You see them,try to do what they have done, if you fail, then you are totally broken… And continue with the thought that” you are a junk…“

Have you ever thought that if you stop comparing yourself with others… What a pleasure, you will feel… Now, the main question that arises.

How to be Satisfied with your life?
Well, if you truly want to get through the answer,just for 1 night think about Yourself, what you need to get from Yourself without looking at someone who have more achievements..
That someone is also hungry for achievements from others…
If you see carefully it’s a long chain of Disatisfaction The only thing a person should remember to be satisfied is Accept yourself as You are..

Don’t get this feeling of Envy within you..
Nobody is happy with their life just because of this word comparing..
Now, You will say it’s easy to say it verbally…
but let’s change this statement to
“It’s easy to Accept yourself as you are”
"Satisfaction in Life is the true meaning of achievement "

“Don’t put yourself in LIFE , put LIFE within YOU“