Hola Amigos!!😀
Hope you all are safe and doing good. Its good that the pandemic is decreasing day by day but do take precautions as its not over completely.
Well, Lately I have received some mails from our juniors who were being struggling from some basic problems which we all have/will been/go through. “”Choosing career“”
Everytime the mistake is not ❌of a child, at some point I think that parents are the one who couldn’t understand their child. Parents should leave the topic of career ON 🔛 their children. They shouldn’t leave them with certain options. Children👧👦 should be free to think and choose any career.
Let me tell you one thing, IF there is a conflict between a teen and parents on a career option. I am damn sure 👍💯 that the parents might have reached to the saturation point because somewhere down the line the child thinks💭 to talk to parents and feels that parents will understand😉 him/her BUT the biggest mistake parents make here is that they start shouting on them and they demotivates them by saying🗣🗣 “”YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING”” .The biggest arrow➡ which damage a child is this. This four word sentence looks very small but the destruction made by it is tooo big. From that very moment this sentence roams in a student mind due to which they are distracted from studies. They only think 💭that “Are we really capable of doing anything”.
From childhood we are taught that parents are the wonderful creation of The Almighty. They are the only one ☝who always thinks good about their children, and they do so, no doubt. But 📖📖
Parents should not ❌🚫always talk about marks and studies. They should develop a normal conversation with their children too. Believe me if they are always talking🗣 about studies and nothing else the child will feel isolated in his/her own house🏠. If they are only giving preference to marks than they are themselves sending their child far from them. Whenever a child comes to talk or to share anything about their day like what happened in their school, coaching or with friends. I know parents will get bored but parents should patiently listen to➡it because sometimes having talks with your child will make them feel happy and please it’s a huge request to you dear parents don’t go on 🔛to tell about your child’s talk to your relatives and friends cause their is a value of everyone’s talks, and please don’t ask them to study on their birthdays🎂at least.
If a child talks to their friends more than parents then they have gone far from them because they believe that mom and dad just need marks they don’t love me, they love marks and nothing else whereas their friends👭👬👫 love them more than studies.
See marks are not ❌ the only thing in this world 🌏. I know they are important but just once 🔂put yourself in their place than you will understand What ❓harm have you done to your child and see which place you have taken in their hearts❤, a bad one or a good one☝. Hope that they have taken a good one.
Parents should not❌🚫 always ask them about studies. They shouldn’t forget that their is a world outside those books 📚📕. The world🌏full of difficulties, problems. Let them find happiness in such an exhausting life. Let them apply those Maths theorems and Physics applications in their normal day to day life.
Parents should encourage them for new things because there are other professions than Engineering, Medical, Chartered Accountant. There is another world of ARTS 🎨✍🎭💕, beyond SCIENCE and COMMERCE
If sometimes a child cracks some joke or perform some stand up comedy then parents should never say that ” What will you do if you went on🔛 with such nonsense things??? ” And many such sentences like these, cause it might be possible that one☝ day they become a comedian like Romano ,Dave Chappelle or might they start a series like One mic stand of their own. Or might be possible that they even become an musician or a photographer( It is quite a good profession these days) Let them have their own choice as there is no surety in any of the streams, it is better to let them run behind their passion or atleast don’t pressurise them with the dreadful word marks.
And I would also like to say to the students that your parents are also correct in their place, its just they want you to have a stable future (Its not like their is no stability in other fields except study) but in those fields you have to learn all the new ways and you have to be updated with new forms of it, its good if you can manage both passion and studies(which is quite difficult I know but if you really want to make your future in it than you can as nothing is “IMPOSSIBLE”)
Stay safe and Happy😀
Your’s faithfully🤘🏼🤘🏼
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